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I don’t know how but it’s gotten into my subconscious. If I
forgetfully happen to get off the wrong side...I jump right
back into my bed. mock sleep and jump out of the right.. But other than that, I don’t believe in many of the “standard”
ones...like “cat crossing the road” etc.
I am an “innovator” in
this aspect. I create my own. Most of them have been reserved for
special occasions like exams and cricket matches featuring India.During my school days, I would never go to an exam without my mom
giving me a “Tulsi” leaf as Prasad for good luck. I don’t know why
but I always got the feeling that eating that tulsi leaf would
increase my memory for all the stuff I had mugged up for the exams.
Once I went to an exam without taking it and I didn’t fare all that
well. I put it down to not taking the tulsi rather than anything
else. That stayed till I went to my professional course which took
me out of home and placed me in a hostel. With mom not around in the hostel to give me the tulsi leaf before
the exams, I created my very own “ritual” albeit accidentally. The
first semester exams were on. My usual habit was to sleep early on
the eve of the exam and get up early to revise ‘coz my dad had
taught us whatever one studies with a fresh mind stays longer. On
exam day, I got up around 4.30 AM before my alarm rang, probably
‘coz of the butterflies in the stomach. When I went to the bathroom
to freshen up, the water was really hot. On other days, I usually
was up by 7.30 and by then most of the hot water was consumed). So,
I decided to take a bath and was fully ready. By 5.00AM, I was
showered, had worn my ironed clothes and even my shoes. I sat at my
table and revised the stuff. I did very well that day in my exam.
Again I put it down to that ritual. Infact, the clothes I wore that
day became my “exam clothes”, my 2 hero pens became “exam
pens”. From that day on, all exam days, I would get up early, get
ready, wear my “exam dress” and shoes and then revise For all 8
semesters, I wore only those clothes on exam days. I’d come back,
wash them and press them in time for the next exam. I never used
those pens for anything other than writing my exams. Even there, I
had an order in which to use the pens. My thought was that no matter
how badly I was prepared, this ritual would make sure my exams were
easy. In fact, by the time I was in the eighth semester, the fancy
buckle on the left boot (they were the cowboy boots – influenced by
western spaghetti movies) had come off...but I used a safety pin to
keep it in place and wore it despite owning better ones. That's
when my roommate got to know of my “ritual”. My distinctions were
courtesy of this ritual.
Watching cricket matches featuring India is another “ritual”
creator. I have so many different ones. However unlike my exam
ritual which was consistent throughout the four years, cricket match
rituals are “dynamic”. This is something I still do. I have to
admit. I remember this one match in Bangalore, a day-night game, when
India was chasing a target. I was at home watching on TV. Wickets
had fallen with still some distance to go and Anil Kumble and
Javagal Srinath were at the crease. No hope of a win when my mom
told me – “Atleast
have your dinner now!!”
I was in the middle of my dinner and was about to put a morsel of
food in my mouth when one of them hit a boundary. I sat in that
position... like a statue for the rest of the match...seriously!! My
arm was hurting and my folks were making fun of me but I didn’t move
a muscle. India won. If someone tells you it was on the back of some
fighting batsman ship from Anil Kumble and Javagal Srinath..don’t
believe them...It was my statue position that won it for India! But from that match on, I have made sure I am sitting in a
comfortable position so that when something happens for India and I
have to be in a statue position, I am atleast not hurting myself.
When I was in the US, we had a cricket team in Memphis that I used
to play for. During the 2003 world cup, the matches used to be
played early morning our time – 1.30AM. After the first two matches
when we found it was tough to be up and watching it alone, we
decided to keep company and make the viewing enjoyable. So all of us
on the team decided to watch it together, at the captain’s home. We
celebrated when India won the next match against Zimbabwe and I
tried to pick on something I had done but couldn’t really think of
one. Anyway
since it was an easy game, the team didn’t need my support. India won the next match against Namibia. That day I noticed that
on both occasions, I had parked my car in a particular spot. The
next match was against England. I didn’t get my parking spot that
night and saw that the car parked there was another friend’s. I went
in and told him to move it out so that I could park there. He shared
it with the guys and everybody had a good laugh. India batted first
and were going well. Sehwag was out. Ganguly and Tendulkar were
batting and the guys were still ribbing me. Suddenly both Tendulkar
and Ganguly fell and they were all animated in discussions on how
the rest should bat. I told the guys –“Look
if you can just get Makhija’s car out of there and give me that
spot, India will win”.
They didn’t succumb to it. India went on to make something like 250,
I think, and the guys were wondering if they would be able to
defend.
During the break, I again told them, “Guys,
give me that spot and India will win”.
More to humor me than anything else, they relented and Makhija
pulled out his car from there to let mine in. What followed was
super stuff. In an inspired spell of bowling, Nehra got 6 English
wickets and India had a thumping win. by almost 90 runs or so. When
the celebrations were on, I prompty told the guys – “See,
I told you that spot was lucky for me”.
It rubbed off on the guys...from that day on, for the rest of the
matches until the finals, that spot was reserved for my car.
Well, India made it to the finals and the number of people wanting
to watch was too many. Since I actually had the Dish connection and
worldcup package in my apartment as well, I had been hounded by many
to let them come and watch. The captain also had numerous requests.
So for the finals, I was playing host at my apt. and couldn’t join
the team. Ricky Ponting started thumping the Indian bowlers.
Midway, my captain called
me and asked me to come over to keep the “luck” going. I left my
friends in-charge of my apt. and drove down, only to find that my
spot had been taken. Unfortunately, that day, it had been taken by
somebody not from the group. We couldn’t get it moved. India lost
the match. Not because of Ricky Ponting....but b’coz some
baseball-loving american had taken MY parking spot!!
However, in the last year or so, I have replaced these with a more
profitable one. I always bet against India no matter who they play.
It maybe 50/100 bucks but I think it’s a win-win situation for me.
If India win, I don’t mind paying up and if India lose, I end up
with some moolah that helps me get over it pretty easily. I could relate many more such
colorful examples of “rituals” that
I’ve seen folks follow but lest the reader think that I suffer from
some sort of obsessive-compulsive disorder like
Jack Nicholson in “As good as it gets”, I’ll let it pass.
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